I will respond... at some point. Currently, I am in the middle of moving and starting a new job so it's a bit hectic over here. Once I get settled in and get an internet hook up at my new place I will spend time on the response.
haha offence is rarely taken by me or, as far as I know, any of the other INTP's who lurk and loom about around here. You were right to point out the lack of coherence, I honestly had not read your post thoroughly enough to make the response I did. This is actually the third time this week that this has happened, but this is by far the least regrettable consequence (the other two had me misinterpreting assignment submission instructions)
I am 22 and my sister is 26. To be honest the differences between us are next to embarrassing, we cannot hold a conversation between us without it becoming awkward. I actually blocked her on facebook because I couldn't stand the updates which would detail her latest fashion purchase with pictures and description. I'm not kidding when I say I'm jealous, at face value your family sounds like it would have a great dynamic