Originally Posted by Firehazard159
Originally Posted by SpaceYeti
Why does it upset you?
Because my world view differs from yours. A relationship isn't about just sticking it in a girl, to me. I could do entirely without sex - I'd rather not - but it's just that low on importance to me.
I don't understanding dating to have sex. So, rather than asking why wouldn't you date to have sex, I'd have to ask the reverse - Why date just to have sex? It's pointless, and not even that amazing.
Despite not being the one being asked, I'd have to say it upsets me
because of the competition factor. I get sick of seeing girls I would have liked hooking up with arrogant, overconfident douchebags with nothing to back it up simply because they're assertive and "play the odds." Not to be arrogant, but based on past experience, when girls actually do give me a chance (on either a sexual or romantic level) it usually ends up going pretty well, but it rarely gets to that point. I remember someone once saying, "Girls decide whether or not they're going to fuck a guy within the first five minutes of meeting him. After that they just think, 'I hope he doesn't do something stupid to screw it up.'"
And on a side note, what's with the dichotomy between casual sex and relationships? I'll take sex when I can get it, usually, but I find the experience is actually more pleasurable when there is some kind of mental/emotional connection.
And yeah, I'm pretty sure there's a reason no girls are posting in this thread. In fact we've probably already all ruined our forum-cred w/ the female members just by posting here.