Hi guys, this will be my first post here or in any other sort of forum.
Please pardon me if I get anything wrong. I don't even know if this forum is where I should be posting haha
Anw, I feel like I should first explain why I joined this forum, but then again, maybe not..
For now, I would just like some advice.
Today, at work (I just started two weeks ago), my colleague asked if I am "always this serious". I am not. I just don't know him well enough yet so I can't joke with him. So I told him that. Then he tried joking around a bit more so that it wasn't so tense, and I tried to 'not be so serious', even though I wasn't serious at all, just really really had no idea what to say so I just kept quiet or smiled.
After that, I kept thinking about me being serious. I kept scrutinising my every action to see if it was too "serious" or not. My whole mind was filled with that that I couldn't concentrate on work and dropped a few things and even broke a saucer. I tried willing myself to stop thinking about it but just can't. Which is why i resulted to posting in a forum. To seek advice. From, hopefully, people who are like me. Who can understand. Because there is no one in my life right now who can.
Why am I so hung up about it?! Even as I type now I find this such a trivial matter, but I just can let go of it..!
Maybe someone can share if they too experience such behaviours and how they deal with it?
Thanks.. (:
Please pardon me if I get anything wrong. I don't even know if this forum is where I should be posting haha
Anw, I feel like I should first explain why I joined this forum, but then again, maybe not..
For now, I would just like some advice.
Today, at work (I just started two weeks ago), my colleague asked if I am "always this serious". I am not. I just don't know him well enough yet so I can't joke with him. So I told him that. Then he tried joking around a bit more so that it wasn't so tense, and I tried to 'not be so serious', even though I wasn't serious at all, just really really had no idea what to say so I just kept quiet or smiled.
After that, I kept thinking about me being serious. I kept scrutinising my every action to see if it was too "serious" or not. My whole mind was filled with that that I couldn't concentrate on work and dropped a few things and even broke a saucer. I tried willing myself to stop thinking about it but just can't. Which is why i resulted to posting in a forum. To seek advice. From, hopefully, people who are like me. Who can understand. Because there is no one in my life right now who can.
Why am I so hung up about it?! Even as I type now I find this such a trivial matter, but I just can let go of it..!
Maybe someone can share if they too experience such behaviours and how they deal with it?
Thanks.. (: