ashlynx
Redshirt
i remember the first time i took the mbti test. well first of all hi. im new here. as y'all can see because it's obvious. anyways, the first time i took the test i got INTJ, which was fun because everyone seems to be up their ass since they're visionaries or whatever. but that just didn't seem like me, because i do in fact have the potential to become a visionary if i wanted to. im just too lazy to even care enough about being steriotyped as a genius.
am i smart? sometimes. everyone is a bit smart. but not INTJ kind of smart. anyways, i'm not here to be sucking my own d*ck and telling some other smart strangers online about my IQ as if that means anything at all.
my best friend is INTJ. i am for sure INTP. i know that because i thought about it for a lot of time and came to this conclusion. something she would never be willing to try, for example, because she thinks online tests are useless. i rarely see something as useless.
we tend to argue a lot, mostly because of her batshit crazy god complex. she thinks shes smarter than everyone. that includes me. i know i'm smart, as ive said before, but i would never waste precious time comparing myself to other people. i literally. don't. care. and for most of the time i won't say anything about it. if she wants to believe it that it's not any of my business. whatever makes her happy and don't get on my nerves.
the thing is i know she loves me very much and because she loves me it extremely annoys her that i have this huge potential and never cared enough to do something about it. since she's annoyed she tries to "wake me up" and "make me see the truth" by being an absolute asshole and always putting me down with her harsh and pointless criticzing. i have found myself thinking she's ignorant and dumb several times, despite being very aware that she has just as much intellectual capacity as me. she simply has no empathy or common sense when expressing her points of view, which makes people avoid her and ignore what she's saying. that includes me. i guess this is more of a rant than anything but if anyone has similar experiences of conflict with INTJs or even some good advice i could use to improve this relationship that would be nice. i don't want to drop her but it upsets me that she thinks she's smarter then me just because we work differently and i like to take a little longer to process and think about whatever is on my way before acting. i don't even want her to think i'm smart, it's just irritating to see how stupid she's being without realizing it is damaging our relationship and overall all of her personal connections.
am i smart? sometimes. everyone is a bit smart. but not INTJ kind of smart. anyways, i'm not here to be sucking my own d*ck and telling some other smart strangers online about my IQ as if that means anything at all.
my best friend is INTJ. i am for sure INTP. i know that because i thought about it for a lot of time and came to this conclusion. something she would never be willing to try, for example, because she thinks online tests are useless. i rarely see something as useless.
we tend to argue a lot, mostly because of her batshit crazy god complex. she thinks shes smarter than everyone. that includes me. i know i'm smart, as ive said before, but i would never waste precious time comparing myself to other people. i literally. don't. care. and for most of the time i won't say anything about it. if she wants to believe it that it's not any of my business. whatever makes her happy and don't get on my nerves.
the thing is i know she loves me very much and because she loves me it extremely annoys her that i have this huge potential and never cared enough to do something about it. since she's annoyed she tries to "wake me up" and "make me see the truth" by being an absolute asshole and always putting me down with her harsh and pointless criticzing. i have found myself thinking she's ignorant and dumb several times, despite being very aware that she has just as much intellectual capacity as me. she simply has no empathy or common sense when expressing her points of view, which makes people avoid her and ignore what she's saying. that includes me. i guess this is more of a rant than anything but if anyone has similar experiences of conflict with INTJs or even some good advice i could use to improve this relationship that would be nice. i don't want to drop her but it upsets me that she thinks she's smarter then me just because we work differently and i like to take a little longer to process and think about whatever is on my way before acting. i don't even want her to think i'm smart, it's just irritating to see how stupid she's being without realizing it is damaging our relationship and overall all of her personal connections.