jpc
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There are many interpretations to this movie. Or movies in general. And I am not usually interested in trying to extrapolate what it all means, but you make some interesting points. Still, you are not the good guy if you start fucking up other people´s lives.First thing this video lead to was me realizing that 'Bruce Wayne' (Christian Bale) has exactly the same appearance/style that 'Patrick Bateman' (Bale playing a Malignant Narcissist/Narcissistic Psychopath) from American Psycho.
I never liked Bruce Wayne either (saw The Dark Knight before I saw American Psycho).. He seems to me like the bad guy who likes the glory of being the Good Guy Fighting Against Everyone Else for the sake of being "the Good Guy", sort of like America (all linked to Narcissism).
The Joker is the good guy gone crazy in my opinion. It's the good guy turned nihilistic and tired (and also crazy/malignant in this particular case).
Bruce Wayne ("The Good Guy") - Patrick Bateman (Narcissistic Psychopath)
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Now sorry for having skipping the point thus far; however I did watch the video 2 times now.
I didn't pay attention to everything, and I haven't watched Dark Knight Rises, so I guess I've lost some of the point, but I think what this guy is saying is mostly pretty coffee-psychology-like. Lots of stereotypes that applies to many people in depression, but this doesn't seem to address much more than just that to me.
Sounds to me that the gist of what he's saying is stuff like "you should try", "don't give up" - he even asks "so why not try?".. And it's mostly all about becoming normal. Except, he mentions, that those having been on the dark side/been through depression etc have more motivation, are better able to relate to people, etc - so, lucky us I guess.
Can't say that stuff helped me at least.
Should consider watching that movie, though.
"Just get friends, get a girlfriend, have alot of sex"
I think how he ends his video is pretty revealing, although not very articulate or precise.
He says something like "hopefully, if you're going through that, [...] what you're willing to do, ok?"
And indeed, that's the thing. You can always neglect something or other to get out.
I like what the director (or some other related guy) of the movie "Kon-tiki" said: "Success is usually paid for by other people and that's what this movie is about."
I honestly think that, Narcissism, is the narrative of success (in a Narcissistic society)... And that's why it's always taught in these circumstances.
And then because a Narcissistic Society is always right and everyone else are always wrong, then everyone who doesn't want or are able to be Narcissistic are bad, dark, evil.
While in reality the roles are reversed, portrayed in many of these popular movies nowadays, like The Dark Knight.
Supposedly The Thinker (The Joker) is the bad guy, just give him a scary smile and portray him as a violent psychopath and the role is set, and the Wealthy Guy (Bruce Wayne) is the good guy, just make it seem that he's fighting evil/the psychopath and that role is set.
In the real world the roles are very opposite.
I.e. CEOs of companies are 400% more likely to have full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
So... yeah... not a big fan of this portrayal. I'm side-tracking at quite extraordinary lengths here though, but I still think I made a point here, so - worth it.
You are also right about the fact that this culture loves to breed narcissism and many people are successful because there are others who work at menial jobs. But that´s the society we live in. You can either keep writing about how awful it is or you can try to do something about it. By not helping us improve the world, you are being narcissistic.
I personally have found that depression can be overcome if you identify the cause. If you blame someone else, it is actually your fault. Not because you caused the other person to behave in a way towards you that made you feel depressed, but because you let them get away with it and win.
I have been depressed. A lot. I havent taken any medication. Nobody really helped me, when I needed help. What helped me get out of it was not letting myself succumb to these negative emotions. I have been nihilistic, in fact I still am. But the reason I am not depressed is that I know that if I try hard enough I might just be able to help someone who is going through what I was going through. You can choose to make the world a better place, however cliche it sounds, or you can choose to feel bad about yourself and hurt others around you.
Fuck all the superhero movies. There are no heroes who are going to come and save us. We are going to have to do it ourselves.