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Sorry if you will encounter incorrect grammar etc. I'm not a native english speaker.
Thanks!
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
There many factors that got me to this confusing point. At first I considered myself as an INTP, it was the result of 16personalities.com test. And I felt that I could relate but as time passed I noticed that I didn't fit the profile as I should. Then I started to suspect I was under confirmation bias and wishful thinking. And noticed that I had started to act a certain way because it's how I "should" react in this situation. There are many times when I find myself thinking about something from a specific angle because that is how I "should" view it.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Getting an identity that gives me social validation and uniqueness. I speculate that it roots back to my childhood. That I never really felt accepted.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
First time I could convey my thoughts in depth and with clarity to a longtime friend without having a guard or being self-conscious.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
If I can't express what I am thinking about
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I'm not entirely sure how this process is going, I know for a fact that other people is in the equation. That is I believe why I can be such a submissive person.
I use both (Do you think about people and how I feel about it) weighing functions I'm just not sure to which degree...
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
My emphasis is that everything needs to be correct and I mean EVERYTHING needs to be as my inner vision. I have to tell myself that IDGAF otherwise I get handicapped and unable to act.
7) Describe a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
I visited my friend at his new apartment. We smoked some weed and just joked around like crazy, had honest revelations about ourselves and accepted each other fully.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you?
Watching someone else do it first then by trial and error.
9) How organized do you think of yourself as?
I'm not organized my room is a mess, I don't care so much of my hygiene if isn't for a purpose. Unless it's something that I try to achieve or I get an idea about how something is ought to be, then that particular thing gets organized and should be done in a certain way.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
I think I try to understand the principles and how it fits.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
If I see or hear something that indicates a bad feeling I will restrain myself and value you're emotions highly. I'm very pleasing as well, like laughing at the majority of jokes that I don't find funny, being overly agreeing and so on. But you could argue that this could be because of my insecurities.
When I'm feeling better about myself I tend to be more in my own shoes and I can unintentional step on others feelings but I'm still kind of pleasing and heavily aware of the reaction I get from the environment
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions? I almost always think before I speak.
I usually prefer group discussions so I don't feel the pressure of having to constantly speak with someone. I have an on-and-off switch which if this get on I don't think so much before talk and can talk at much greater length and then I prefer one-one communication. when I'm in off-mode everything I say needs to be somewhat correct.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
I always need to know before leaping which can lead me to get frozen.
I believe it depends on what we are dealing with. Actions that are interwoven with strong emotions like a woman screaming bcz here child is in danger says alot. Actions can also be misleading. Like how in the heat of the moment you could do something you do not actually identify with. Thus words speak louder when actions are not accompanied by strong emotions.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
It depends of the entire situation like which friends and what we are going to do and I often question what I'm getting out of the situation.
But generally I would go cause I like people and making connections. I can't be home alone very long before wanting to meet up a friend. Like a week or so tops.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
acting with more determination and problem solving. not paralyzed by infinite choices
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Being judgmental, being a toxic commentator or if your intentions is to hurt others.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
My current inspirations, relationships, common interests, MBTI and things we both can relate to.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
Materialistic things like clothes, money.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality?
Everyone of my friends perceive me differently. I have friends that thinks I'm one of the most intelligent people whom they know. I have friends who thinks I'm whack job. I have friends that thinks I'm a cold bastard. Friends that think I very sensitive.
Most of the time they are right it's just that I act very differently depending how comfortable I am. I let other people dictate, so if the other person is not very abstract I will withhold my views on the topics discussed and adjust according to how I perceive is best suited for the person.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Most likely I will spend the majority of the time reading upon my latest obsession, typology and optimization of diet and nutrition are my current. Play some computer games. If feeling lonely, grab something to eat with one of my pals.
Thanks!
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
There many factors that got me to this confusing point. At first I considered myself as an INTP, it was the result of 16personalities.com test. And I felt that I could relate but as time passed I noticed that I didn't fit the profile as I should. Then I started to suspect I was under confirmation bias and wishful thinking. And noticed that I had started to act a certain way because it's how I "should" react in this situation. There are many times when I find myself thinking about something from a specific angle because that is how I "should" view it.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Getting an identity that gives me social validation and uniqueness. I speculate that it roots back to my childhood. That I never really felt accepted.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
First time I could convey my thoughts in depth and with clarity to a longtime friend without having a guard or being self-conscious.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
If I can't express what I am thinking about
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I'm not entirely sure how this process is going, I know for a fact that other people is in the equation. That is I believe why I can be such a submissive person.
I use both (Do you think about people and how I feel about it) weighing functions I'm just not sure to which degree...
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
My emphasis is that everything needs to be correct and I mean EVERYTHING needs to be as my inner vision. I have to tell myself that IDGAF otherwise I get handicapped and unable to act.
7) Describe a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
I visited my friend at his new apartment. We smoked some weed and just joked around like crazy, had honest revelations about ourselves and accepted each other fully.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you?
Watching someone else do it first then by trial and error.
9) How organized do you think of yourself as?
I'm not organized my room is a mess, I don't care so much of my hygiene if isn't for a purpose. Unless it's something that I try to achieve or I get an idea about how something is ought to be, then that particular thing gets organized and should be done in a certain way.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
I think I try to understand the principles and how it fits.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
If I see or hear something that indicates a bad feeling I will restrain myself and value you're emotions highly. I'm very pleasing as well, like laughing at the majority of jokes that I don't find funny, being overly agreeing and so on. But you could argue that this could be because of my insecurities.
When I'm feeling better about myself I tend to be more in my own shoes and I can unintentional step on others feelings but I'm still kind of pleasing and heavily aware of the reaction I get from the environment
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions? I almost always think before I speak.
I usually prefer group discussions so I don't feel the pressure of having to constantly speak with someone. I have an on-and-off switch which if this get on I don't think so much before talk and can talk at much greater length and then I prefer one-one communication. when I'm in off-mode everything I say needs to be somewhat correct.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
I always need to know before leaping which can lead me to get frozen.
I believe it depends on what we are dealing with. Actions that are interwoven with strong emotions like a woman screaming bcz here child is in danger says alot. Actions can also be misleading. Like how in the heat of the moment you could do something you do not actually identify with. Thus words speak louder when actions are not accompanied by strong emotions.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
It depends of the entire situation like which friends and what we are going to do and I often question what I'm getting out of the situation.
But generally I would go cause I like people and making connections. I can't be home alone very long before wanting to meet up a friend. Like a week or so tops.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
acting with more determination and problem solving. not paralyzed by infinite choices
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Being judgmental, being a toxic commentator or if your intentions is to hurt others.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
My current inspirations, relationships, common interests, MBTI and things we both can relate to.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
Materialistic things like clothes, money.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality?
Everyone of my friends perceive me differently. I have friends that thinks I'm one of the most intelligent people whom they know. I have friends who thinks I'm whack job. I have friends that thinks I'm a cold bastard. Friends that think I very sensitive.
Most of the time they are right it's just that I act very differently depending how comfortable I am. I let other people dictate, so if the other person is not very abstract I will withhold my views on the topics discussed and adjust according to how I perceive is best suited for the person.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Most likely I will spend the majority of the time reading upon my latest obsession, typology and optimization of diet and nutrition are my current. Play some computer games. If feeling lonely, grab something to eat with one of my pals.