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ESFJ(or perhaps maybe just an damaged and insecure
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So, I recently ran into a long-over thread: "Insecurities of an INTP female" and It got me thinking I should verbalize some thoughts they might enjoy hearing, as I find INTP women objectively to be the most attractive, and one of the weaknesses of the INTP are that they second guess themselves, while my biggest issue is that I rarely do such a thing. So it makes sense to me that they could gain a thing or two in the confidence deportment by reading an positve perspective of them.
Anyways I know this thread wasn't specifically about INTP women being unattractive to the opposite sex, but female insecurities encompass that, so I've written a love letter if you will to INTP women below(cringe wording, I know)
1.INTP women are attractive in the most unique ways. I've seen and observed many that I can only assume are INTP's by(I'm a visual detective, I am "supernaturally" attuned to all sudden movements around me, and I can also recognize facial expressions and tiny images; all without someone noticing) The fact that they don't put to much effort into the way the dress and look tells me that they aren't "high maintence or secularists". Instead of spending hours on make up and $100s on brand name clothes, they do something artsy with themselves(usually with their hair) They seem like a lot of fun to be around with, and they seem open to doing anything as long as doesn't involve taking the risk of being used by other people or getting humilated by them. Overall, they seem to care less about the status quo, which is great because I tend to want do and say things that are completely unconventional for middle class cis white males to be doing and saying.
2. INTP women are elusive, which makes them more special. I've been to 5 different high schools due to both my dad's job and stress issues. The closest I with a INTP Female was being an acquaintance, I always made jokes our math class and she would laugh at most of them, but she would make me feel stupid for being terrible at math and sometimes she would chew me out for saying something to her best friend(who I had a minor friendship with) she took the wrong way. I never asked, her out she was always dating someone, but ended up being single right before I left the school. Other INTP's I had a crush on always seem to have their ear phones in or are busy with homework, and I never talk to them because I don't\'t want to embarrass them so I never talked to them. If I do end up talking to them in a restrained school environment, I get interrupted by the teacher and they become embarrassed by all the gossip that goes on about someone like me trying to talk to a to a girl. I knew an openly identified INTP male that considered me his friend, but never got to know that well, as I need up switching schools and I never have time for extra circular activities that require planning.
3. They're minimalistic, in an econicallly inflated country currently going through a recession, who wouldn't want to date a minimalists?
4. They're artsy and smart as hell. They typically know how to make art some pretty cool art or at least have a deep understanding of it. They also read ALOT.
5. They're independent. They never wine they now how to take of themselves, and I've never seen them be a nuisance to anybody who's competent or and or mind's their own business.
6. They're classy. They always think before they say something and they usually put things in the most polite ways possible.
7. They now how to play fake people and they know how to work a broken system to their advantage. They're sneaky, people don't notice them and most people don't know them, so I they wanted to steal something, or monitor a bad situation, they could easily do it. They also seem very respective to all kinds of sounds and they able to read and process information at a very fast rate.
8. They are the only people that can me care about things I would't normally care about and their only the only people that would be able to convince me to do something I wouldn't want to do. This is awesome, because I suck at retaining written information and understanding certain concepts. I'm also unmotivated when it comes to written work.
(Side note) according to soiconics your best match is your dual opposite, so if
you want to identify a single ESFJ and date one here's a description of what they look like and what they like to do. He's either dressed like a stylish slob and or a member of the school football team(not me, my dad never net me try out because I was scrawny and inexperienced, despite being fast as f*ck boy)He likes to hangout bounce around between one friend or multiple friends and loudly belittle himself and others in a joking manner, upper class norman rockwell kids will ether be amused or scared by him. Lower class 'thuggish kids' will have a begrudging respect for him, and his friends will have little to no respect for him. TAKE THIS WITH A GRAIN OF SLAT, because I might just be a really depressed and unaccomplished ESTP(I'm not honest enough with myself to take a test and find out my true type(though I've taken it multiple times over the span of two years and I've gotten ESFJ, ENFP, ESFP, INFJ, ISFJ and INFJ and ESTJ) If I am an ESTP(which is what Jack Nicholson is considered to be, he's my soul animal), I'm still highly commutable with INTP's I would describe myself as a flamboyant, trashy, bad boy, I'm commonly called a "faggot" and told I'm wierd, but I'm not emotional enough or smart enough to be considered a nerd. Only my ex-girlfriend called me one, though I found it to be very inaccurate, I also get called a dumb d-bag by my good friend a lot. Anyways, back on MTBI tests, I ether find the questions on the test to be ether impossible to answer or impossible scale(as most of the do on a scale 1-5 bs). In my opinion, someone needs to make a "what would you do in this situation" type test so MBTI can be respected and understood by the more common personality types. Sh*t, Telltale games should make a personality type test game, that would work perfectly. It would work because, some people are just too idealistic to say what they really believe, even to a test, but simulated actions based on required quick decisions, that's where I really become my self. Adding a interactive Meyers Briggs test to Telltale would solve the whole, "your decisions mean nothing in Telltale games" complaint.
Anyways I know this thread wasn't specifically about INTP women being unattractive to the opposite sex, but female insecurities encompass that, so I've written a love letter if you will to INTP women below(cringe wording, I know)
1.INTP women are attractive in the most unique ways. I've seen and observed many that I can only assume are INTP's by(I'm a visual detective, I am "supernaturally" attuned to all sudden movements around me, and I can also recognize facial expressions and tiny images; all without someone noticing) The fact that they don't put to much effort into the way the dress and look tells me that they aren't "high maintence or secularists". Instead of spending hours on make up and $100s on brand name clothes, they do something artsy with themselves(usually with their hair) They seem like a lot of fun to be around with, and they seem open to doing anything as long as doesn't involve taking the risk of being used by other people or getting humilated by them. Overall, they seem to care less about the status quo, which is great because I tend to want do and say things that are completely unconventional for middle class cis white males to be doing and saying.
2. INTP women are elusive, which makes them more special. I've been to 5 different high schools due to both my dad's job and stress issues. The closest I with a INTP Female was being an acquaintance, I always made jokes our math class and she would laugh at most of them, but she would make me feel stupid for being terrible at math and sometimes she would chew me out for saying something to her best friend(who I had a minor friendship with) she took the wrong way. I never asked, her out she was always dating someone, but ended up being single right before I left the school. Other INTP's I had a crush on always seem to have their ear phones in or are busy with homework, and I never talk to them because I don't\'t want to embarrass them so I never talked to them. If I do end up talking to them in a restrained school environment, I get interrupted by the teacher and they become embarrassed by all the gossip that goes on about someone like me trying to talk to a to a girl. I knew an openly identified INTP male that considered me his friend, but never got to know that well, as I need up switching schools and I never have time for extra circular activities that require planning.
3. They're minimalistic, in an econicallly inflated country currently going through a recession, who wouldn't want to date a minimalists?
4. They're artsy and smart as hell. They typically know how to make art some pretty cool art or at least have a deep understanding of it. They also read ALOT.
5. They're independent. They never wine they now how to take of themselves, and I've never seen them be a nuisance to anybody who's competent or and or mind's their own business.
6. They're classy. They always think before they say something and they usually put things in the most polite ways possible.
7. They now how to play fake people and they know how to work a broken system to their advantage. They're sneaky, people don't notice them and most people don't know them, so I they wanted to steal something, or monitor a bad situation, they could easily do it. They also seem very respective to all kinds of sounds and they able to read and process information at a very fast rate.
8. They are the only people that can me care about things I would't normally care about and their only the only people that would be able to convince me to do something I wouldn't want to do. This is awesome, because I suck at retaining written information and understanding certain concepts. I'm also unmotivated when it comes to written work.
(Side note) according to soiconics your best match is your dual opposite, so if
you want to identify a single ESFJ and date one here's a description of what they look like and what they like to do. He's either dressed like a stylish slob and or a member of the school football team(not me, my dad never net me try out because I was scrawny and inexperienced, despite being fast as f*ck boy)He likes to hangout bounce around between one friend or multiple friends and loudly belittle himself and others in a joking manner, upper class norman rockwell kids will ether be amused or scared by him. Lower class 'thuggish kids' will have a begrudging respect for him, and his friends will have little to no respect for him. TAKE THIS WITH A GRAIN OF SLAT, because I might just be a really depressed and unaccomplished ESTP(I'm not honest enough with myself to take a test and find out my true type(though I've taken it multiple times over the span of two years and I've gotten ESFJ, ENFP, ESFP, INFJ, ISFJ and INFJ and ESTJ) If I am an ESTP(which is what Jack Nicholson is considered to be, he's my soul animal), I'm still highly commutable with INTP's I would describe myself as a flamboyant, trashy, bad boy, I'm commonly called a "faggot" and told I'm wierd, but I'm not emotional enough or smart enough to be considered a nerd. Only my ex-girlfriend called me one, though I found it to be very inaccurate, I also get called a dumb d-bag by my good friend a lot. Anyways, back on MTBI tests, I ether find the questions on the test to be ether impossible to answer or impossible scale(as most of the do on a scale 1-5 bs). In my opinion, someone needs to make a "what would you do in this situation" type test so MBTI can be respected and understood by the more common personality types. Sh*t, Telltale games should make a personality type test game, that would work perfectly. It would work because, some people are just too idealistic to say what they really believe, even to a test, but simulated actions based on required quick decisions, that's where I really become my self. Adding a interactive Meyers Briggs test to Telltale would solve the whole, "your decisions mean nothing in Telltale games" complaint.
Mixed with Fe, it becomes this web that you cannot escape, and everything is about this one thing that will unify blahblahblah, and the intensity is blinding. They think they are wise and special, but I find them extremely arrogant, because they tend to view people who don't subscribe to the one unifying blahblahblah as "unenlightened". But I haven't met that many, so perhaps I'm the arrogant one, for generalising them this way. Just not my cup of tea.
