How To Tell To an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

[catatonic]

How can I put this?

Uhm okay, so here is the story...

I'm a member in another forum, there's a member there who is so annoying, he's kinda racist and looked down to Asian and Muslim.
I hate him because I'm an asian and although I'm not into any religion but I come from Muslim family.

So, me and my friend made some plans to troll him to death.
One of my friends said that this guy often ask about me, that was why I trolled him by acted like I'm in love with him.
He seemed to be enjoyed it, but then he rejected me.
Well, honestly I don't like rejection. Rejection means my trolling failed.
So I back off to made new plans, then I can get him in only 2 weeks. Hahaha.
It was so ridiculous when we were acting like we did the "online dating".

Apparently something counter-intuitives happened, I started to dream about him every time I sleep.
What made me crazy was that he looks like my first crush when I was 15.
I've no idea either I actually dreamed about my old friend or I dreamed about this guy.
Anyway because my old friend has already gone more than 12 years ago, I assumed I dreamed about the guy I trolled.
All of the dreams every time I sleep made me really crazy, I guess I acted like I was so obsessed about this guy, which doesn't make any sense that I fell in love with someone that I've never meet.
I continuously told him that I suspected he did some kind of sorcery to me, like infiltrated my dreams.

Until one day, I realized I'm very irrational to fell in love with a guy that I should trolled. You know, my dominance is Ni... I can felt that he was only playing games with me too.
I asked him about that, and yes..it's true that he can never forget his unrequited love to a french girl who is an artist.
Well okay, then I decided that the "online dating" is over.
Then he became so EMO, I felt bad and told him that I still can be his friend.
So day after day, he told me almost everything about his past with this french girl.
I felt like WTF, grow up, stop being EMO, you don't live in the past!

Well, now that I'm back to my previous on-off long term bf.
So I told this INFP guy that I was just trolling on him and never really into him.
But then I can felt that he was kinda felt "WTF"...
Again, I felt bad and sent him an email that saying about I don't like rejection, I was obsessed with him because of the dreams, etc.

Apparently I did another mistake, meh!
Now that every time I posted something about relationship on the forum, he feels like my heart is broken because he rejected me. WTF!!
And yesterday we argued about something useless. He said that all people are intelligent in their own way, but I opposed him...I said not all people are intelligent, there are so many dummies in this world, but they can be smart with hard work. Then out the blue, he went angry like chihuahua, insulted me and compared me with the french girl. WTF FTW!!

So, I decided...whatever, enough is enough, I don't want to know anything about you anymore.You can STFU GFYS.
He responded by saying that he hates a person who don't like rejection and blamed other for that. FTW WTF!!

Meh....
Seriously, hello... I don't love you at all, Mr. INFP!!
Who the hell wants to be with a spoiled boy who always lives with his parents/ relatives for all his life?
Yah I know, it was all my fault though, I trolled him but then can't really get out of his life because I felt like a very bad person to playing games with his heart.

Any suggestion to deal with this INFP?

 

[The Gopher]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

Copy PM paste... No but I think everyone has a special kind of wit... You know like.. half-wit, nitwit....

 

[catatonic]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

Eh? Elaborate please?
You mean, I should just ignore this guy or what?

 

[snafupants]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

Until one day, I realized I'm very irrational to fell in love with a guy that I should trolled. You know, my dominance is Ni... I can felt that he was only playing games with me too.

As the Backstreet Boys are wont to indelibly harmonize, quit playing games with my heart.

So I told this INFP guy that I was just trolling on him and never really into him.

Granted I perused the OP but you sound like an asshole.

 

[catatonic]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

As the Backstreet Boys are wont to indelibly harmonize, quit playing games with my heart.

Ahahaha I remember that song, I was in 7th grade at that time.

 

[snafupants]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

Ahahaha I remember that song, I was in 7th grade at that time.

It proved a daily challenge not to get lost in Nick Carter's baby blues.

Yeah, Nick, I want it that way.

 

[catatonic]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

It proved a daily challenge not to get lost in Nick Carter's baby blues.

Yeah, Nick, I want it that way.

It's okay...
I don't care who you are, where you from, and what you did...as long as you love me.

Seriously, what should I do?
He knows that I'm annoying and have asshole trait, but I can't just tell him again, because it's been several times I told him I was only trolling on him...but then I took my words again every time he looks sad.

 

[catatonic]

Nah nevermind, I was just being EMO because of feeling guilty when I made this thread.
I can just simply leave that forum, problem solved!

 

[The Gopher]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

Eh? Elaborate please?
You mean, I should just ignore this guy or what?

I was like copy and paste what you have here into his pm. Probably an unwise idea though.

 

[catatonic]

Re: How To Tell an INFP That I Was Only Kidding?

I was like copy and paste what you have here into his pm. Probably an unwise idea though.

Yeah very unwise, he has very sensitive feeling and anger issues as well.
Why do you think it's hard for me to just leave him alone?
This is somewhat weird because I used to be easily wave goodbye after trolling on someone, but not with this guy.

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Maybe it's true that he did some kind of sorcery on me?

I actually don't believe in sorcery though, but he's a celtic guy..and the dreams was so irrational, luckily I'm no longer dream about him anymore.

 

[NinjaSurfer]

Ghey

 

[catatonic]

Ghey

Wut?

 

[pjoa09]

where is the tldr version? When did you become INFJ? Why are there so many past tense verbs in present tense sentences?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li_kx3Jz_Ks

But seriously, it's quite difficult to read and incredibly long for a story that is arbitrarily better than Twilight.

 

[koan]

This is so convoluted. I find it despicable behaviour. I don't understand how you expect sympathy or why you cared what happened.

If it's of any use, you and him are both hung up on your first loves. That is your collective weakness an you both despise each other for it... in various ways. Enjoy the misery your web has spun. It has nothing to do with type, imo. Only to do with morality and viciousness of character.

 

[catatonic]

where is the tldr version? When did you become INFJ? Why are there so many past tense verbs in present tense sentences?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li_kx3Jz_Ks

But seriously, it's quite difficult to read and incredibly long for a story that is arbitrarily better than Twilight.

Uhm, INFJ?
I thought that INxJ have Ni as the dominant function.

Ahahaha, sorry.
I only use English in internet forums, English is not my everyday language.
Pardon my ghey grammars.

 

[catatonic]

This is so convoluted. I find it despicable behaviour. I don't understand how you expect sympathy or why you cared what happened.

Sympathy? When did I ask for sympathy?

If it's of any use, you and him are both hung up on your first loves. That is your collective weakness an you both despise each other for it... in various ways. Enjoy the misery your web has spun. It has nothing to do with type, imo. Only to do with morality and viciousness of character.

It is related to the type, imo.
Every time I want to wave goodbye, he can always makes me feel bad, he knows how to baited me. He knows how to make me angry and guilty at the same time. Feelers are good in emotional manipulation like that.

He also has Fi as his dominant function, Fi is the self-righteous function. Well, I have Fi as well...as my third function.

I made this thread because I'm confuse how to end this cheap drama with no guilt-trip.

 

[koan]

Sympathy? When did I ask for sympathy?




It is related to the type, imo.
Every time I want to wave goodbye, he can always makes me feel bad, he knows how to baited me. He knows how to make me angry and guilty at the same time. Feelers are good in emotional manipulation like that.

He also has Fi as his dominant function, Fi is the self-righteous function. Well, I have Fi as well...as my third function.

I made this thread because I'm confuse how to end this cheap drama with no guilt-trip.

Glad to hear you don't expect sympathy, because you were being a bitch. Plain and simple.

"He seemed to be enjoyed it, but then he rejected me"
That's what you said, then you claim you tried to wave goodbye. And he knows how to manipulate your out of type feelings. You end it by being INTP and walking away without emotion. If that's a challenge you've likely not typed yourself correctly. If it's not a challenge you're still an INTP who is a bitch. Good people don't play emotional games with other people. That has nothing to do with type. It has to do with quality.

 

[catatonic]

Glad to hear you don't expect sympathy, because you were being a bitch. Plain and simple.

"He seemed to be enjoyed it, but then he rejected me"
That's what you said, then you claim you tried to wave goodbye. And he knows how to manipulate your out of type feelings. You end it by being INTP and walking away without emotion. If that's a challenge you've likely not typed yourself correctly. If it's not a challenge you're still an INTP who is a bitch. Good people don't play emotional games with other people. That has nothing to do with type. It has to do with quality.

Why you mad?
Nope, I'm not an INTP who is a bitch, I'm an INTJ who is an asshole.

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I thought that I've already wrote my dominant function is Ni and I have Fi, how can you think that I'm an INTP?

It has many things to do with the type, know the type = know how to deal with.
This INFP is quite difficult to deal with, I expect someone who knows more about INFP read this thread and tell me what to do.

 

[EyeSeeCold]

I expect someone who knows more about INFP read this thread and tell me what to do.

Stop being so EMO.

 

[catatonic]

Stop being so EMO.

I'm not being an EMO today, but yes...I was EMO yesterday, so that I made this thread.

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Now, I only reply the comments in here.
I'm such a PITA.

 

[snafupants]

Good people don't play emotional games with other people. That has nothing to do with type. It has to do with quality.

Sounds like someone's been on the losing end of sexual mind games.

 

[catatonic]

Sounds like someone's been on the losing end of sexual mind games.

^^^

Glad that I'm not the one who said this.

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I expected someone will say it

 

[NinjaSurfer]

Internet relationships are the best

 

[catatonic]

Internet relationships are the best

You mean the best ghey?

 

[DeadonDreaming]

COPY AND PASTE HIS PMs

 

[pjoa09]

Uhm, INFJ?
I thought that INxJ have Ni as the dominant function.

Ahahaha, sorry.
I only use English in internet forums, English is not my everyday language.
Pardon my ghey grammars.

my dominance is Ni...I can felt that he was only playing games with me too.

SHE'S A WITCH!

 

[catatonic]

COPY AND PASTE HIS PMs

I don't think so.
I guess it's better to ignore than send him another PM.
I actually don't like drama, but well...this is the consequence of my trolling.
Ignoring is the best way to end the drama, I guess.

 

[catatonic]

SHE'S A WITCH!

Who is she?
You mean, the witch is me?
Well let it be
It's my nature actually.

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that's rhymed

Guess he's the last infp I trolled.

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not because I won't troll again..it's just enough for the infps

 

[Psychic Child]

Me psychic child will change him with my super active third eye.

be in harmony
be in peace
pc
roger

 

[Psychic Child]

he must be another psychic.
controller of dreams

 

[Niclmaki]

LOL @ Psychic

 

[Niclmaki]

Glad to hear you don't expect sympathy, because you were being a bitch. Plain and simple.

"He seemed to be enjoyed it, but then he rejected me"
That's what you said, then you claim you tried to wave goodbye. And he knows how to manipulate your out of type feelings. You end it by being INTP and walking away without emotion. If that's a challenge you've likely not typed yourself correctly. If it's not a challenge you're still an INTP who is a bitch. Good people don't play emotional games with other people. That has nothing to do with type. It has to do with quality.

Agreed.

 

[Psychic Child]

 

[pjoa09]

Who is she?
You mean, the witch is me?
Well let it be
It's my nature actually.

Spoiler

that's rhymed

Guess he's the last infp I trolled.

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not because I won't troll again..it's just enough for the infps

Yes, you are one. INFJ.

 

[koan]

Why you mad?
Nope, I'm not an INTP who is a bitch, I'm an INTJ who is an asshole.

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I thought that I've already wrote my dominant function is Ni and I have Fi, how can you think that I'm an INTP?

It has many things to do with the type, know the type = know how to deal with.
This INFP is quite difficult to deal with, I expect someone who knows more about INFP read this thread and tell me what to do.

I know the type too. It's called liar. Alternatively referred to as manipulator.

You think you can get away with manipulating people on this forum? I know another I just left in which you'd fare much better... seeing as how you aren't after self improvement just self validation.

 

[catatonic]

Yes, you are one. INFJ.

Yusss... Thanks for typing me for free! You're so nice!

 

[catatonic]

I know the type too. It's called liar. Alternatively referred to as manipulator.

You think you can get away with manipulating people on this forum? I know another I just left in which you'd fare much better... seeing as how you aren't after self improvement just self validation.

You're a liar if you say you've never lied.
Nope, I've never think about get away on this forum. It's not about self validation too, it's about asking what to do. Why U No Understand my simple intention? -__-
Stop projecting yourself on my problem hun.

Thanks for the compliment, I like how you judge me as far much better manipulator than the person who manipulated you.

 

[Psychic Child]

why do you ebben care about that kid?

 

[catatonic]

why do you ebben care about that kid?

So, I did the "online dating" for about a month with him. He told me lots of things about himself, some bullshits and some truths(I'm a good lie detector, because I'm a convincing liar too )

That 1 month changed my judgment about him, I used to really really hate him..but I changed to be care about him. He's a very spoiled boy who can get depressed because of small things, he has anger issues and bad mood swings too. I want him change to be a better person, I hate it if he sad of something useless. There are so many people who have worse lives than him who can do better, stable, and succeed. I acted like a big sister for him although he's older than me.

Idk, it's my nature to nurturing people who have issues like that. But I can't stand with his anger issues and self-righteousness. He really likes to bait and insult out of the blue. And it's bothering me if he thinks that I love him and he has rejected me..hello I was the one who ended the "online dating", furthermore..I have a very very very nice bf now. I don't like it if he thinks that I'm into him.

Thus I choose to ignore him now, if I make up and befriends again with him or tell him that I was only trolling on him...it will be never ending drama.