What should I do?

[Cherry Cola]

From the situation you described it didn't really sound like there was anything you could have said or done to fix it tbh.

 

[HDINTP]

From the situation you described it didn't really sound like there was anything you could have said or done to fix it tbh.

Can you be more specific?

I also thought that I was all right after that but it is not true. Is it possible that I was affected by my emotions even if I did not feel like that. I also find it stupid that I do not feel enough sexual attraction to her because she is so much simillar to my picture of ideal female when it comes to appearance. I was also quite slow to act on my feelings. I did probably hurt her even though I did not mean it like that. I do not think it is going to be easy to be able to talk to her one on one? I had different kind of block I guess. I am human I do make mistakes but this one is huge for me. It does not seem like easy task to just forget so I do not know what to do. I have no idea. And if I try from zero again I do not think it is going to work...

On the other hand I truly have nothing more to lose at this point so I could do whatever I come up with? As I said she just came to conclusion that I think she is a b--ch which is not true. And on friday I could not even look at her.

I think it is too late to do something and that I was too slow to understand myself. I can't turn back the clock and I would like to so much.

 

[Cherry Cola]

She didn't seem interested in being in a relationship with you, if she had she would've treated you differently, instead she did very much seem interested in the other guy.

Unless you're a devil of a charmer and the other guy is much less of one it's hard to do anything in such situation. As it stands, you sound like the honest and quirky guy who's nice but no ladies man, whereas the other guy sounds like more of a testosterone rider who doesn't mind trampling on toes to get where he wants and knows how to appear exciting before a teenage girl.

Ie try not to beat yourself up about it, peoples priorities do become better when they grow older. Girls'll be more interested in the kind of qualities you have because they are important in a lasting relationship (less so in a teenage love flick like the one the girl seems to be having with the other guy).

 

[Montresor]

Teenage lust is the most painful thing I've ever felt on the inside. It passes.

 

[HDINTP]

She didn't seem interested in being in a relationship with you, if she had she would've treated you differently, instead she did very much seem interested in the other guy.

Unless you're a devil of a charmer and the other guy is much less of one it's hard to do anything in such situation. As it stands, you sound like the honest and quirky guy who's nice but no ladies man, whereas the other guy sounds like more of a testosterone rider who doesn't mind trampling on toes to get where he wants and knows how to appear exciting before a teenage girl.

Ie try not to beat yourself up about it, peoples priorities do become better when they grow older. Girls'll be more interested in the kind of qualities you have because they are important in a lasting relationship (less so in a teenage love flick like the one the girl seems to be having with the other guy).

But I could say my sorry? I mean I could had done few things different way. Thank you for your response

 

[HDINTP]

Teenage lust is the most painful thing I've ever felt on the inside. It passes.

Everything passes eventually and I am thankfull to you because you helped me to get through this.

 

[Cherry Cola]

You could say sorry but its probably best to just let it go, its not Like they were nice to you anyway :P

 

[HDINTP]

You could say sorry but its probably best to just let it go, its not Like they were nice to you anyway :P

That it so true they were not plus she was lying all the time... Anyway I feel good at the moment. I just want her to know I did not want things like this. I will see how I feel about the situation tomorrow.

 

[Cherry Cola]

Its enough that your intentions were good IMO

 

[HDINTP]

She ignores me quite successfully and it hurts me. I would like so much to like her but she is not interested it seems not anymore...

 

[HDINTP]

So I was told that she is not interested. Even when I did apologise, she is still angry. But I did as I wanted. It just is like that. Now I love her insanely. I also told her that I won't tell her again that she is a bitch. Now I regret it. But let's think about it. Why should I be nice to her? Why should I dislike her a lot? She wants me to stop seeing her. As I said if she really wants it she is going to have it. Now I have to put myself together because otherwise I may have emotional problems. Few people in my life were truly important to me. She was to but I think it is time to let her go? On the other hand I can now destroy the guy for personal reasons. I do not have to care about what he or she does/doesn't like. Could we say that I am finally free? I am going to give it a shot and try different girl. One of the reasons why I am going to try this girl is that I can't say I do dislike her. If I try then I can figure out if we have something in common plus this one is really reserved.I could maybe get to know her type. However I do not want to heal myself on her so I want to figure out if I can honestly like her if you get an idea? I remember one of my favourite proffessors teaching me few things about life few years ago and because I had an opportunity to apply one of those today I was able to put Jeff at his place. There was also different guy and they were sort of trying to bully me socially I would say but it had none to zero effect on me. I am going to be back at my usual and sharper than ever after this experience sounds weird? And now I am going to do a lot of things as I want to. The guy can't stop me so the show begins... Thanks everyone for your supports and responses all the time I appreciate that all. I truly believe now that I will be finally allright.

 

[Cherry Cola]

You two should probably not hang out with each other at all for a while to let things cool down! If you're on her now both of you will just end up being hurt

ah but blergh, tbh I dont fucking know.. its hard giving irl advice based on forum posts