I'm wondering, are any of you guys emotionally handicapped? What I seek is thoughts on being more well balanced, and actually either developing ways to be able to deal with situations where emotions are involved i.e. dating and the like or your experiences with situations like this.
I am awkward from what i've heard, and am a bit robotic to the point that these situations aren't great for me to be in with the average person because I ruin them and feel like I want them to stop/ or feel sickly smothered so it's ruined. I also don't experience much variation in emotion too often, and am too apathetic for my own good most of the time, so this comes to be a problem with dating and shit. If this sounds anything like you, how do you deal with dating and the like. I think I should learn to "feel" and "care" more, if I am ever going to get into relationship-like things. I've met other INTPs that do not have this issue from what I hear so… maybe this is just exclusive to me.
I want to want to be flirted with, and not feel uncomfortable and smothered when it happens. The idea of friends with benefits is the most appealing to me, but this isn't the sort of relationship i'd want to one day be okay with having. It's more of the, dating sorta thing.
So how do you all deal with it if it's an issue? All thoughts welcome, etc, yadah.
Thanks.
I am awkward from what i've heard, and am a bit robotic to the point that these situations aren't great for me to be in with the average person because I ruin them and feel like I want them to stop/ or feel sickly smothered so it's ruined. I also don't experience much variation in emotion too often, and am too apathetic for my own good most of the time, so this comes to be a problem with dating and shit. If this sounds anything like you, how do you deal with dating and the like. I think I should learn to "feel" and "care" more, if I am ever going to get into relationship-like things. I've met other INTPs that do not have this issue from what I hear so… maybe this is just exclusive to me.
I want to want to be flirted with, and not feel uncomfortable and smothered when it happens. The idea of friends with benefits is the most appealing to me, but this isn't the sort of relationship i'd want to one day be okay with having. It's more of the, dating sorta thing.
So how do you all deal with it if it's an issue? All thoughts welcome, etc, yadah.
Thanks.