sexual frustration~*~*

[drugsandpizza]

hi. i am a sexually frustrated 15 year old girl with no life, nice to meet you.

hypothetically speaking,

if your best-friend came over and you were hanging out or whatever and then they suddenly kissed you, would you go with it?

he's a guy, okay. i'm not getting bi-curious or anything.

siiiiiiiigh. i just need to make out with someone, and i can be myself around him, and i'm comfortable, but i don't want him to spazz or anything.

lol ~*~teen problems~*~

 

[SpaceYeti]

Haha, I remember when I was 15 and sexually frustrated. Honesty, I was so awkward that getting sex was fairly difficult, regardless I apparently had a fan club of girls with crushes on me. Seriously, the second to last day of my senior year a girl told me she had a crush on me, and that she had for years. How do I handle it? I tell her that if she wears a skirt the next day I'd fuck her in the ass. Yeah... if I could travel back in time, I'd get phat poon.

However, now that I'm technically an adult, I feel obligated to advise you to wait until you're older and more mature. Knowing that won't happen, however, I'll simply remind you to use as many precautions as you can get your hands on. Don't rely on the pull-out method alone, at the very least.

And there will be drama. You're a teenager, in high school. There will be drama. There's nothing you can do about it.

Oh, and I did have chicks over my place who were just friends and I made out with them. That's not all I did, and they certainly weren't "best" friends (bros before hoes, yos). I do not advise that anyone repeat my action, though. All I can say is, if you're going to do something stupid, be smart about it.

 

[EyeSeeCold]

Nice try Chris Hansen.

I'm on to you.

 

[SpaceYeti]

... Which of us are you on to?

 

[pjoa09]

hmm... ~*~* must be the syntax for yahoo answer questions...

seriously though, I would say wrong forum.

 

[Eljua]

Go watch The Human Centipede; hopefully it'll help you with your urges.

 

[Cognisant]

Even if this is true, which admittedly I doubt (chalk it up to personal bias), your situation seems to be that you're too nervous to give the guy the figurative "green light" which I'm sure will change with time.

if your best-friend came over and you were hanging out or whatever and then they suddenly kissed you, would you go with it?

Girl randomly kisses a guy = practically guaranteed to work out, eventually.
Guy randomly kisses a girl = likely a restraining order and social prosecution.

 

[Melllvar]

So this must be how Dateline finds people for their "to catch a predator" shows.

 

[CoryJames]

On a tangent, I find it rather funny that despite this recent huge increase in issues with consent, broader parameters for sexual harassment and assault, increase in publicity and awareness about rape, etc. it seems that one (not generalizing all girls, nor saying that this was what the OPs post implied) common thread among female sexual fantasy is a male exerting dominance and forcefulness over the girl. This is a softer way to say "rape fantasy", which some girls have outright.


To the OP, I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to find an equally sexually frustrated guy your age who wants someone to make out with. Also, I'm fairly certain you'd get a good response from your male best friend if you did that.

 

[Bird]

I think ultimately just making out
will make you more sexually frustrated
not less.

 

[CoryJames]

I think ultimately just making out
will make you more sexually frustrated
not less.

Yea but it will inevitably lead to more. I really just don't think it wise to elaborate on the goings on between two sexually frustrated 15 year olds on a public forum.

 

[Bird]

I was merely trying to hint that
maybe finding someone to make
out with isn't the best solution
as it will more than likely create
more problems.


I'm sorry.

 

[CoryJames]

Stop apologizing so damn much, and what are you suggesting? That our hormonal young friend suppress her nature?

I find this very hypocritical considering what you've just said in the other discussion we are having.

 

[EvilScientist Trainee]

Seriously, the second to last day of my senior year a girl told me she had a crush on me, and that she had for years. How do I handle it? I tell her that if she wears a skirt the next day I'd fuck her in the ass. Yeah... if I could travel back in time, I'd get phat poon.

SpaceYeti just got so many badassness points right now.

 

[Puffy]

Thanks Eyeseecold, that made me laugh. "Take a seat, right here."

 

[SpaceYeti]

Stop apologizing so damn much, and what are you suggesting? That our hormonal young friend suppress her nature?

I find this very hypocritical considering what you've just said in the other discussion we are having.

A chick apologizing is sexy. Or am I the only guy who thinks that?

 

[SpaceYeti]

SpaceYeti just got so many badassness points right now.

Uh... cool. It was an example of my sexual awkwardness, though, not how awesome I am.

Though, now that I think about it, I didn't see her the next day to know if she did or didn't wear a skirt. I don't think she did, but she may have!

 

[kantor1003]

Apologizing is something I associate with a female quality. I find females sexy. So, apologizing is sexy. (I think I included a fallacy there)

 

[MacGuffin]

Sexual frustration is one of the main conditions of being 15 years old.

Don't worry, when you start having sex and relationships it gets a lot worse.

 

[Bird]

You could always just emotionally
manipulate him.

 

[CoryJames]

It'd be easier to sexually manipulate him. Like "accidentally" be naked when he comes over.

 

[Bird]

Ooooh

You could sexually and emotionally
manipulate him (:

 

[typus]

this thread has become so inappropriate o:

 

[CoryJames]

Ooooh

You could sexually and emotionally
manipulate him (:

Get naked and begin to sob heavily?

 

[Dimensional Transition]

MAY I JUST SAY: What the fuck?
Edit: Oh wait, you're not trolling?

Oh. I don't know. Kind of depends. I could go with it, possibly. Most likely I would. At least he must've liked you at some point, otherwise there's just no point in having female friends for a guy. I have female friends now, but I've only become friends with them because at first I was interested in dating them. I'd say go for it. Life is so boring without a thrill anyways.

 

[drugsandpizza]

MAY I JUST SAY: What the fuck?
Edit: Oh wait, you're not trolling?

I'd say go for it. Life is so boring without a thrill anyways.

LOL. This thread was funny to read..

Yeah, I'm going for it.

 

[Dimensional Transition]

How did you end up here anyways? Did you feel like dumping your problems somewhere?(This sounds pretty negative, I don't mean it that way.)

 

[DarkGreen]

I remember when I was a confused little girl who didn't know what relationships were like. Now I know what they're like and I will absolutely avoid them for awhile. Don't be stupid.

 

[indigofireflies]

I bought a vibrator. Guys became a lot less appealing.

 

[drugsandpizza]

How did you end up here anyways? Did you feel like dumping your problems somewhere?(This sounds pretty negative, I don't mean it that way.)

I just took that personality test thingie and winded up here.

 

[SpaceYeti]

That's odd. I find that chicks tend to prefer the texture of my man-meat to that of similarly shaped toys. Maybe I just find the right chicks, maybe I just find terrific actors.

 

[drugsandpizza]

I remember when I was a confused little girl who didn't know what relationships were like. Now I know what they're like and I will absolutely avoid them for awhile. Don't be stupid.

I don't even want a relationship. I just want sexual activity, duh. Commitment in high school is dumb ~

 

[EyeSeeCold]

 

[SpaceYeti]

Ooooh

You could sexually and emotionally
manipulate him (:

... I'm not sure if emotional manipulation works on INTPs, since half the time we're not even aware if we currently have emotions, or not.

 

[SpaceYeti]

I don't even want a relationship. I just want sexual activity, duh. Commitment in high school is dumb ~

... Agreed.

 

[indigofireflies]

I don't even want a relationship. I just want sexual activity, duh. Commitment in high school is dumb ~

Wooow. I'm not even sure what to say to that.
Part of me thinks you're right and part of me is in upheaval about society's doom.
Go you.

 

[Stoic Beverage]

If your avatar is a picture of you, and not some random girl you decided to have as your avatar, then you'll be just fine. I think you'd be hard-pressed to find a guy that objects to spontaneous kissing (assuming the kisser isn't nasty. Which you aren't, so no worries.)

 

[SpaceYeti]

She has nice eyes. Age me backwards a decade and I'd be down.

 

[Bird]

I don't even want a relationship. I just want sexual activity, duh. Commitment in high school is dumb ~

I'm pretty sure most girls like the commitment so
they don't come off as easy or a slut (;

 

[onthewindowstand]

Hmmm *Thinks back to age fifteen* I remember when a girl told me how most girls don't like being used for sex. I promptly responded by saying most guys like using women for sex.

 

[SpaceYeti]

I'm pretty sure most girls like the commitment so
they don't come off as easy or a slut (;

It's only slutty if she does it frequently, with multiple partners.

 

[Bird]

If you're going to fuck one person regularly,
you may as well swallow your protests and
realize that you're in a relationship.

Merely one that is based off of sex.

 

[CoryJames]

Depends on what your definition of relationship is. When most people say "relationship" in terms of one between men and women, they are referring to a romantic relationship.

To the OP, I admire your confidence and conviction in getting what you want and not conforming to societal norms. However, I would urge caution, and warn you to be discrete in your sexual conquests, or you might receive a not so nice label within your peer community and you'll probably begin to receive unwanted attention/expectations from the boy crowd.

 

[SpaceYeti]

If you're going to fuck one person regularly,
you may as well swallow your protests and
realize that you're in a relationship.

Merely one that is based off of sex.

A relationship, sure, but not a commitment.

 

[Bird]

There goes my female feeler brain.

Relationship = commitment.

 

[kantor1003]

Wait, fucking regularly with the same person is known as a relationship? What if you don't share anything else? When you just beep each other when you are horny, it isn't a relationship in my mind, just a fuck friend. Even friend is misleading. Often it's just that, instead of a girl using a dildo, or the guy jacking off, they just use another body instead. If that's a relationship, then fuck me, lol.

 

[SpaceYeti]

Hey, I'm a monogamous dude. I understand wanting just one, granted they meet the requirements. I simply realize that people do things I don't, through witnessing it. Not directly, in many cases, of course.

 

[SpaceYeti]

Wait, fucking regularly with the same person is known as a relationship? What if you don't share anything else? When you just beep each other when you are horny, it isn't a relationship in my mind, just a fuck friend. Even friend is misleading. Often it's just that, instead of a girl using a dildo, or the guy jacking off, they just use another body instead. If that's a relationship, then fuck me, lol.

A relationship isn't necessarily a relationship with a romantic partner. You could have a business relationship, a friendly relationship, you could be biologically related, whatever.

 

[Bird]

Wait, fucking regularly with the same person is known as a relationship? What if you don't share anything else? When you just beep each other when you are horny, it isn't a relationship in my mind, just a fuck friend. Even friend is misleading. Often it's just that, instead of a girl using a dildo, or the guy jacking off, they just use another body instead. If that's a relationship, then fuck me, lol.

I said it was a sexual relationship.
And yes, that's what it is. A sexual
relationship. A relationship based
solely on sex.

 

[kantor1003]

What protests is there to swallow then?