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Hadoblado

Hadoblado

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  • Puffy
    Naww the av is good. <3

    I'm afraid, we can't pretend that neurodiversity assessment is a scientific process. You complete some self-reported forms [reminding you of a certain personality forum? :rolleyes:] and a psychiatrist gives you their opinion based on your self-reported form. It's MBTI with some peer review. This is muddy stuff. I got 4/10 on the quotient form beneath the 6/10 threshold.
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    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    At this point I've got a decent awareness of my many shortcomings. Slapping another label on the pile doesn't really solve anything for me. I encourage people toward self-awareness but the diagnosis itself is only useful if it helps you towards something.
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    And yes, stigma. I wouldn't lead on the dating profile with it (or any condition/disorder), that's not what a dating profile is for!
    Puffy
    Puffy
    Sure don't worry, I think my sense of humour doesn't always come across well. I can be dry af.
    Puffy
    I'm lurking tf out of the place but so far proud of my discipline. Another forum mafia game might tempt me into posting. :dolphin:

    For what it's worth re: autism thread, I think there's a fair chance you and most staple posters are neurodiverse. Your new avatar is autistic af.
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    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    If a forum game happens we'd probably need to assemble the avengers of old. There simply aren't enough people here currently, certainly not with the requisite reading comprehension :S
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    You don't like the av? I broke from tradition and didn't make it quite so uncomfortable. It's a still from AoT. I was reflecting on how an autistic person would know their autistic given their limited point of reference, and then this came up on screen while I was watching and it's a look I never understood the reason or intention behind.
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    Felt like a sign so I slapped it on. So yeah, I guess you're bang on, it's autistic af lmao.
    Puffy
    More likely until I reach 4444, the next number my magical thinking would accept :dolphin:
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    Damn it didn't even occur to me you could reply by other means -I thought I had you cornered into posting again. Not sure why I'm only seeing this now though... XD
    Puffy
    Heh - looks like we're both getting aggro'd at the moment. :smile-big:
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    Yep. Super frustrating to navigate this whirling deathtrap of interlocking baggage.
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    of course XD
    Ex-User (13503)
    Fwiw, I know you've historically been patient with my explanations of things, and I'm thankful for that.
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    It's alright. I've just got less time to parse nebulous communications than I used to. It's not specifically you, it's that there's so many people hiding what they're thinking behind walls of words that I'm just calling it every time I see it, lest we all find ourselves playing solitaire with no interaction between views.

    I do think you habitually muddy the waters, but it's not necessarily deliberate or malicious.
    "Lago".... Sir, I'll have you know that I'm a fine, proud rabbit!

    Not a lake! :D
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    I'll have you know that despite knowing people here since joining in 2012, people still can't pronounce my name. "HardoBlardo"? Really?

    You'll just have to cope Lago ;)
    Ex-User (13503)
    But I pronounce yours right! Or at least I did.... >.> <.<
    Troy.Kell.67
    I am not sure if I am an INTP. I did MTBI online tests, got same result six times: INTP.
    What is happening I daydream the entire day. To avoid conversations and social situations I think that I am dreaming. In this dream I am the protagonist and the other people are neutral, without the unavoided effect that
    they can exert over me. Any suggestions, personality trait?
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    It's probably best to make a thread, if you ask on my wall you will only get one answer, which won't be representative of what everyone thinks.

    Personally, I don't believe that MBTI is a useful inventory. To me it sounds like you're disengaged, and I do exactly the same thing, and have done my entire life (the details of the day dream are different). This might mean introversion (in a general sense).
    Jennywocky
    So don't worry too much about it. If you guys discuss it, you try to remain consistent, and you are serving the stated priorities of your role, then that's about all you can do. (Of course, I assume that a priority is maintaining the most level of diverse conversation as possibly while removing toxic elements that ultimately drive membership away.) Anyway, this thread was just a rehash of prior bans, nothing new. ;)
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    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    I'm mostly just tired of having the same conversation with the same people who assume the same things despite constant evidence to the contrary.

    I don't understand why people who don't have all the information just assume their version of the truth, and then set about convincing those who do have access to the information of their side of the story.

    Bleh this forum is lame when you're a mod.
    Jennywocky
    Jennywocky
    It's the same thing on any forum, honestly; and there are members here notorious for that anyway... I remember being originally frustrated dealing with it, then passed through my five stages to reach bored resignation. ;) Don't worry, reality will beat that feeling out of you! :D
    Jennywocky
    My only disappointment in Intolerable being banned is that I wasn't here to make a smartass comment in the thread before it got locked. Alas.

    ... stepping back a moment, I will say you will always have a faction who will disagree with mod decisions. Sometimes it is the same faction. Such is life. People have different priorities and so will disagree over each other's decisions if it violates their priorities.
    Black Rose
    ...
    Hadoblado
    Hadoblado
    Don't worry about the rule specifics.

    Just don't be worse for the community than you are good for it. It's a really low bar.
    Grayman
    not using the @user, not quoting, and hybrid view shows it as a response to the OP, not Adaire. I didn't read it as a response to Adaire.
    Grayman
    You refering to the thread where RB knocked the new mods?
    Not what was said but who it's coming from then.
    Puffy
    I don't know if others are experiencing this, but the section detailing "top 5 stats, latest threads & posts" hasn't been loading for me for the last few days (just says "loading..."). Was unsure if this was a known technical bug.
    Cognisant
    Stop sanitizing the forum, let QuickTwist stick up for himself, if I'm being dismissive then he should call me out on it, stand his ground, make his point and be ready to defend it.

    I respect that you're keeping the peace, keeping people happy, but there comes a time when Rome needs to burn to cast out the lepers and clear out the slums.
    Haha, thanks Hado. I don't know how to be brief - I seem to be very non-scientific in that respect...

    Btw, I would say the same about your posts - I always enjoy reading them.

    :0)
    Black Rose
    I am drawn to it because I cannot create it myself. I really want to have transcendent experiences because of the emotion and beauty. But the only times that has happened was when I saw art and computer animation and listening to music. I am so sad that my mind in empty and I cannot create stuff in there or see it. So I just remember how I felt before and take my collections and put them together. I have thousands of pictures, lots of music videos on youtube. But it's not enough because it's not a living jewel. The Animatrix has animation I like. I hope virtual reality can be like that someday. Life seems so dull.

    Yes I know I was being out of line there. But is it so bad to react strongly to repugnant opinions? I feel the only times people listen to me on these issues is when I show my anger. Anyway I think this might be my last post in a while, I'm aware that I'm being toxic lately and I'm taking a break for that reason
    Cognisant
    Ok the first two fair enough, calling people stupid is an ad homineum but using heuristics to solve moral dilemmas is objectively stupid, I gave that example about alleyways to demonstrate this, calling something stupid isn't an ad homineum if doing it actually is stupid.

    I will refrain from posting in that thread until we can come to some sort of understanding on what is and isn't fair game because otherwise I'm just going to get myself in trouble for what I see as calling a spade a spade.
    redbaron
    this guy continuously perved at me at the gym and one time when it was just me and him he came over to me while i was squatting and grabbed my ass!!!! i was so shocked i lost form and broke my back!!!!!!!!! now im in a wheelchair!!!!!!
    RaBind
    your avatar is... unsettlingly graphic, it seems to offend me at a very deep and primal level :/
    kora
    Aw man I always miss the fun around here, it's like you all just wait for the loser INFJ to get out before doing anything interesting.
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